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Making Space for Your Thoughts: A Kinder Approach to Anxiety

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Making Space for Your Thoughts: A Kinder Approach to Anxiety

When anxious or distressing thoughts show up, many of us instinctively try to get rid of them, but this can often leave us feeling even more stuck. In this blog, we explore a different approach using tools from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), including cognitive defusion techniques that help you notice thoughts without being overwhelmed by them.

You’ll discover how to respond to your thoughts with more kindness and flexibility, using powerful metaphors like the “salt in an egg cup” to understand how space and perspective can reduce the intensity of unwanted thoughts. This article offers evidence-based strategies that allow you to move towards what really matters, even when difficult thoughts are along for the ride.

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Mental Health Needs Maintenance Too: 5 Everyday Steps for Well-Being

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Mental Health Needs Maintenance Too: 5 Everyday Steps for Well-Being

Actions Speak Louder Than Words: How to Actively Support Your Mental Health

Mental health awareness is growing—but awareness alone isn’t enough. This blog explores why it's vital to take consistent action to support your mental well-being, just as you would your physical health. Discover the Five Ways to Well-Being, connect, give, take notice, keep learning, and be active, and learn simple, realistic ways to weave these into daily life. A practical, empowering read to help you move from awareness to action and improve your mental health, one small step at a time.

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Recognising and Calming a Dis-regulated Threat System in Children

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Recognising and Calming a Dis-regulated Threat System in Children

Helping a Child Feel Safe: Recognising and Calming a Dis-regulated Nervous System

In this article, we explore how to recognise when a child’s threat system is activated and introduce five evidence-based calming techniques adapted from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help them feel safe, connected, and in control. By understanding these responses and using simple co-regulation strategies, you can support your child in processing emotions in a healthy way.

If your child is struggling with emotional regulation, our expert child therapists can provide tailored support.

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Take off your stabalisers to break free from OCD

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Take off your stabalisers to break free from OCD

Discover how gradually reducing safety behaviours can help overcome OCD and other anxiety disorders. This article explores CBT, ERP, and practical strategies to build resilience and confidence, empowering you to face fears and live a freer, more fulfilling life.

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Taking Back Control: Harnessing Mobile Phones for Our Well-Being

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Taking Back Control: Harnessing Mobile Phones for Our Well-Being

Our mobile phones are essential tools, but excessive use can negatively impact mental health. In this article, we explore how to take control of phone usage and use technology mindfully. Learn simple, practical strategies to set boundaries, foster meaningful connections, and boost your overall well-being.

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The Power of Analogies in CBT: Using the Spotlight Analogy to Manage Negative Thoughts

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The Power of Analogies in CBT: Using the Spotlight Analogy to Manage Negative Thoughts

In this article, we explore the power of analogies in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), focusing on the spotlight analogy. This analogy helps us understand how our attention to intrusive thoughts magnifies their impact, and how shifting focus to the present moment using techniques from CBT, ACT, and mindfulness can reduce anxiety. We provide a practical example of how this approach helps us manage fear and worry, empowering us to live a more balanced and fulfilling life.

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Understanding Procrastination: Why We Put Things Off and How It Affects Us

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Understanding Procrastination: Why We Put Things Off and How It Affects Us

Exploring the Causes and Consequences of Procrastination: Insights Into Mental Health, Perfectionism, and Beyond

Ever found yourself putting off a task you know is important? You’re not alone. Procrastination isn’t just about being lazy; it’s a complex behavior tied to our emotions, mental health, and even perfectionism. Dive into the psychology behind procrastination to uncover how perfectionism, anxiety, and conditions like OCD and BDD play a role.

Discover practical strategies to break free from the cycle of delay and learn how understanding these emotional triggers can lead to more effective time management. Join us as we explore the causes and consequences of procrastination and uncover ways to regain control.

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Mastering the Art of Assertiveness. Why Speaking Your Mind Can Change Your Life

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Mastering the Art of Assertiveness. Why Speaking Your Mind Can Change Your Life

Discover the power of assertiveness in our latest blog post, where we explore how this vital communication style can transform your personal and professional relationships. Learn about the hallmarks of assertiveness, including crystal-clear communication, respect for all, emotional savvy, and the unshakeable confidence that comes from knowing and expressing your needs.

Dive into real-life scenarios demonstrating how assertiveness, infused with kindness and compassion, can lead to healthier interactions and more effective conflict resolution. Whether you're looking to boost your self-esteem or navigate complex social situations with ease, mastering assertiveness is key.

Empowering CBT and ACT Strategies to Overcome Self-Doubt. A Comprehensive Guide

Empowering CBT and ACT Strategies to Overcome Self-Doubt. A Comprehensive Guide

Navigating through the maze of self-doubt requires more than just willpower; it demands a strategic approach informed by Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). My Therapist Online introduces an enlightening guide designed to empower you to challenge and break free from the paralysing effects of self-doubt. By diving deep into the origins of self-doubting thoughts and employing a combination of introspection, evidence examination, and psychological flexibility, this article offers a robust toolkit for personal growth. Learn to dismantle the barriers of self-doubt through expressive writing, self-compassion, mindfulness, and behavioural experiments—all while aligning your actions with your core values. Embrace this journey of self-discovery and resilience with our expert strategies, and step into a life marked by confidence and self-acceptance.

Enhancing Sleep Quality. Proven CBT Strategies for Overcoming Nighttime Anxiety

Enhancing Sleep Quality. Proven CBT Strategies for Overcoming Nighttime Anxiety

This article tackles the widespread issue of nighttime anxiety and its detrimental effect on sleep, highlighting the cognitive-behavioural feedback loop that fuels sleep disturbances. It underscores Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) as an effective remedy, with My Therapist Online (MTO) offering specialised therapists for personalised support.

It points out the efficacy of self-help strategies, complemented by the specialised guidance from MTO's expert therapists, as essential for breaking the anxiety-sleep issue cycle. The conclusion affirms that with strategic behavioural and environmental adjustments, supported by professional therapy, achieving quality sleep in the face of nighttime anxiety is within reach.

 

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